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This is the view out my front door, thanks to the neighbor who is having a new deck/pergola built. It doesn’t bother me at all to have a Honey Bucket nearly in my yard, but the thought of its tilt does make me feel queasy. The guys go in and out of it without any problems; they must not have any motion sickness issues!

Although I lesson planned in an actual book for 37 years, I’m very disorganized and random with my plant buying. I don’t estimate how many flowers I need, figure out where I should put shade/sun lovers or use any logical rationale whatsoever. I buy what I like and mostly what I know grows well in my flower beds. Petunias and geraniums are a given. I prefer two toned flowers or unusual ones. I love lantana and coleuses (got three of each); I bravely bought an impatiens which don’t usually thrive. I have an embarrassment of riches since I have three family-owned nurseries, gorgeous ones, 5-10 minutes away from me. One of them (Watson’s) is too pricey for me, so I went to a small one, The Garden Hose, run by a retired school bus driver from my district. Then I headed up to my favorite hardware store because they have potting soil in bags I can carry. I’m a weakling!

I think I’ve gotten this coleus before; the colors and leaves are irresistible.

John always looks at the prices of things whereas if I want something, like this colorful coleus, I buy it no matter what. I probably only spent about $80 for my annuals and that included a bag of potting soil; that seemed like a good deal, right?

I call this the Plant from Outer Space. although it does have an actual name. It’s unusual and two colored, so it went in my cart!

The back side yard that no one sees is the only flower bed without plants, but as you can see, I’ll soon have some bearded irises to admire. I’m not quite sure what I want to put in this area.

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In tales of the weird, John and I were talking about his former girlfriends (he’s had a lot); being curious types, we looked up Paula on-line; she was the one before me. Yesterday, Facebook suggested her as a friend for me! LOL I don’t think that would be advisable, do you? She’s very pretty though, in spite of issues between them that caused a break-up. I wish I didn’t sometimes get insecure about my relationship with John; luckily, most of the time I’m rational with a dose of realistic thrown in. Like every couple, we’re also independent individuals and have lived different lives. Can you believe that it’s been almost eight years?

By the way, the arrangements for Ireland are complete: all the flights (and SEATS), as well as the hotel reservation for the night before our tour. Aer Lingus has been outstanding, but we can’t say the same for British Airways which made us pay $80+ dollars to choose aisle seats on our long leg from Seattle to Heathrow. What a racket! My friend and I aren’t conversant with the phonetic alphabet that the employee wanted us to use for our booking reference; we were like deer in the headlights. Our minds went completely blank! As usual for me, I can’t come up with the useful phonetic alphabet, but I can sing the Greek alphabet from my long-ago University of Washington days. I can also conjugate French verbs in many different tenses and moods. Speaking of French, Older Daughter discovered that the guy who got the Montreal job is from Montreal and is doing a post-doc in Paris. As she lamented to me, “I didn’t have a chance.”

This is so not true, except that I am scared of geese. And also bears and cougars. NO ONE IS SCARED OF AN ORCA THOUGH. Geeze. *rolls eyes*

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51 responses to “Eclectic”

  1. kayak woman Avatar

    The tilted honey bucket reminds me of my childhood outhouse, the one we had at our seasonal cabin on L. Superior. I was not crazy about using an outhouse but for the most part, it worked and it was straight up and down, no tilting. When I was 20 or so, the rules for septic tanks and drain fields changed and my parents put a septic tank in even though we were STILL gonna use the damn outhouse. The folks who came out to put that stuff in knocked the outhouse over in the process. My mother was LIVID and yelled (to my great embarrassment, a few of the workers had been high school classmates of mine) “You put that thing back up. We still have to use it.” They did but they did NOT know how to dig an outhouse hole. It’s an art, apparently. So our outhouse not only tilted, it ROCKED, like back and forth and that’s as far as I’ll go with that.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The tilting part would be awful, especially on a tippy trailer. A knocked over outhouse would be an even bigger nightmare! I didn’t know about the art of digging an outhouse hole and hope I never find out. šŸ™‚

  2. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
    Pipe Tobacco

    I write this with complete sincerity, even though it may sound odd:

    All K-12 teachers I have ever known are always very busy writing lesson plans. I truthfully do not understand their value or the reasons for them or probably even what they are REALLY. My supposition is that one or multiple of the following may (or may not) be the explanation for them:

    1. They are REQUIRED by the district?
    2. They provide some inherent value that I am simply not aware of?
    3. They are a pedagogy tool all teachers have to lean in some class, and they just get used to doing them?

    Now, perhaps doing them once is akin to what I do in writing a syllabus? Perhaps not, though for they sound extremely long and detailed and at least most teachers I know seem to be making them over and over and over again. Is this accurate?

    I keep thinking there must be something magical about them that somehow is not recognizable by my fuzzy, old neurons.

    The few times we were TOLD to do them to ā€œhelpā€ ā€œthe processā€ most of the time my fellow professors and I ended up getting into disagreements about what an ā€œobjectiveā€ was compared to an ā€œoutcomeā€ and nothing ever really transpired after that.

    So, might you be willing sometime to consider writing an explanation about what lesson plans are really all about? I am being very, very truthful in that they seem beyond my understanding.

    PipeTobacco

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Except for student teaching, I didn’t write lesson plans because I had to or needed to turn them in, but because they helped me organize my classes in what I considered an optimal way. Language classes are very interactive with many transitions (quick ones) and it’s important to get the students involved. My lesson plans would start with a warm-up activity for students to do independently: sometimes a written activity, other times a reading selection or a short dialogue with a partner. That gave me time for the administrative tasks like attendance. (ugh) Then we would share out/talk about what they’d done and move into the lesson–in which I tried to incorporate listening, reading, writing and speaking. The prior lesson planning allowed me to decide ahead of time which activities would be best oral or written, how I could keep the lesson active and engaging and again, most importantly, how to involve the teenagers. In my 37-year career, I doubt that I ever lectured more than 10 minutes at a time and that was mostly to explain grammar. The focus was to get the students listening to, talking and understanding the language. I would write the plan on the white board for students to see so they could follow along and anticipate what would come next. I guess it was a little like a daily syllabus?

      1. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
        Pipe Tobacco

        Thank you for the explanation! It helps me to see how it can be helpful.

        For me, with the dichotomy inherent between lecture and lab, lesson planning a LECTURE would not be particularly helpful as I just spend the time (90 or 120 minutes) simply yammering.

        And, probably for lab there would be limited value because labs determine their own pacing…. basically you have to go with the ā€œflowā€ of what the organism does or needs…. it ends up being open ended.

        I think the above is why we (in my Department) used to quarrel about meanings of words related to proposed making of lesson plans….. it would devolve into semantics of pedagogy and no lesson plans would ever be accomplished.

    2. Margaret Avatar

      For lecture, you know the specific topic that you’ll be talking about and can do that off the cuff, so to speak. I totally get the lab thing too! In my own department, we had a wide range of teaching styles, although some of us were very similar. One guy had the students do bookwork and workbook activities the whole period while some other teachers were extremely random about what they taught, and when. That caused issues down the line when those students moved to a different teacher. If they hadn’t learned what they were supposed to in first year, then they continued to a second-year teacher who expected them to know those concepts; it was stressful and unfair on those students. And the teacher! Can you tell that teaching was/is a passion of mine?

  3. Doug M Avatar
    Doug M

    Margaret, you made me laugh with that lopsided “honey bucket” (I can guess what it is but I’ve never heard that term). All your plant shopping looks so colorful, this time of year is when I regret not owning a house & yard the most. I have to say I very much enjoyed seeing Johns’ ex-girlfriend (now that’s what I’d call a honey) and ouch that hurt to read about OD and the guy who beat her for that position. I’m sure she did stand a chance. šŸ™

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Honey Bucket is a local company and many of us call them honey buckets instead of portapotties. šŸ™‚ I couldn’t believe that they were going to leave it on that little trailer, especially at that angle; why not take it off and sit it on the street? I do love my plant and flower shopping! I scored big on the lantana. I forgot to buy them last year. I don’t know if OD feels better or worse that the guy was a local. At least she got a trip to Montreal out of it!

  4. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    And I don’t think people are scared of Sasquatch eitheršŸ˜†
    Lovely flowers, all for less than a tank of gas! Quite a deal.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’m certainly not scared of Big Foot, not that I believe that he really exists. I was happy with what I got–now to hope they’ll grow and bloom!

  5. Linda Avatar

    Beautiful photos, Margaret. I love the colours and details.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Thanks Linda! I wanted more coral or orange flowers, but they didn’t seem to have many this year.

  6. Jay Avatar
    Jay

    I need to get some plants, but want to finish my current yard jobs first. So maybe next year?

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Many people in my development don’t plant annuals at all and have no color in their flowerbeds. Perhaps I’m the weird one?

  7. AC Avatar

    I think the red coleus is an absolute must. We have those little early tulips showing some colour, but they are not open yet. I didn’t even know that we had them. They were the bulbs that JJ planted for us last fall. I wouldn’t have actually chosen that mix had I known, but it’s ok.

    1. AC Avatar

      Oh, I was going to say that the honey bucket is such a delightful sky blue colour. šŸ˜‹

      1. Margaret Avatar

        I love the color blue, and it does sort of match my house!

    2. Margaret Avatar

      Red is your favorite color! I’d never seen that color combination before and had to get it. Why wouldn’t you have chosen that mix? The tulips that come up for me year after year are usually not the fancy ones, sadly. By the end of winter though, I’m ready for ANY color in my flowerbeds. šŸ™‚

  8. Siobhan Avatar
    Siobhan

    Is it ok that I am slightly appalled that a port a loo is called a honey bucket !
    Have a fabulous time in Ireland – my late maternal grandfather fought at the Easter uprising and , although he lived to see the creation of the Irish Republic, he resolutely referred to home self as a ā€œ free stater ā€œ
    Siobhan

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It’s a funny name, isn’t it? We’re used to it here since it’s a well-known local company, but others are shocked. We’re not going to Ireland until the end of August, so we have a while to wait. I know little about the Easter Uprising and will look that up.

  9. Wakinguponthewrongsideof Avatar

    Sasquatch…

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Yeah, I don’t know a single person who is scared of Sasquatch and the vast majority think he’s a myth.

  10. Ed Avatar

    In our area, they are normally referred to as Port-a-john and the last time I had one near my front yard was after my neighbor died and they held an estate sale auction on their front yard. I had to do some defense for that day and parked a vehicle along the street to protect my fiber optic box from being run over and I still ended up with a pile of broken glass in my yard from someone who dropped what appeared to be a box full of vases and just left the broken pieces.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      That’s terrible that they didn’t clean up the glass! Honestly, I haven’t been impressed with some people at estate sales. Their attitudes and behavior can leave a lot to be desired!

  11. Midwest Mark Avatar

    And it is mostly drizzle. Persistent, at times nonstop, but rarely heavy…just ever-present!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Like many places, our weather is changing. Lots more non-rainy days. That’s good in some ways and dangerous in others.

  12. Michael Avatar

    Oh my gosh Margaret! When you described your lesson plan writing and the reasons behind it in a comment above, you described EXACTLY how I did mine. I also wrote the things we were going to do on the board so that the students could see what was coming next. We had an administrator who wanted us to write lesson plans a certain way, and I found it to be constraining. We also had to put objectives on the board using statements beginning with the words “I can…” I thought it was odd, and I knew the kids didn’t care how things were written on the board, they just wanted to know what was going to happen. This administrator wrote me up for not using “I can” in an evaluation, but by that time in my career, I just didn’t care. I knew I would outlast her, and I did. Once she was gone, the “I can” stuff disappeared.

    So you are going to Ireland? I must have missed that post. That’s great to hear. You will love Ireland…one of my favorite places on the planet. And from the east coast, it is only about a 5 hour flight. One of my former colleagues just got her Irish citizenship as one of her grandparents was born in Ireland. She is there now, using her Irish passport. Her photos that she is posting are amazing!!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’m delighted to hear that we had similar teaching styles! I hope that PT comes back to read my response; it’s impossible to know if commenters do that. I sometimes feel like I’m wasting my time writing out explanations or comments, so thank you for acknowledging my reply! šŸ™‚ We may have had admin that wanted “I can…” or “Students will be able to…” in our lesson plans but I’ve blocked that out! I forgot to mention that at the end of class we would do a fun activity/game to practice the vocabulary or grammar that we’d been working on. The students loved that! Even as high school students, they were into various relays, board and flash card games.

      1. Michael Avatar

        I think it is important to engage in comments because it becomes a dialogue. I would always do an activity that was like a game also. I would review what they had learned. When we studied the American Revolution I even divided them up into British and American armies!

    2. Margaret Avatar

      When I was blogging on TypePad, I never had a real option to answer in my comment thread. Although I do occasionally send private emails to commenters when I don’t want some info out there for lurkers, I can now engage more in conversations. šŸ‘

  13. Luftmentsch Avatar

    Honey Bucket?! We call them Portaloos here.

    E and I have known each other for eight years, although we weren’t dating/engaged/married all that time, as you know. We’re coming up to our third wedding anniversary!

    I keep the NATO phonetic alphabet near my phone at work as I often blank on it.

    I’m scared of geese. An orca can’t follow you on land.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It’s the name of the local company and it’s the only reason that we call them honey buckets. Very regional! 8 years, wow! I think I’ve known you about that long and at that time you never would’ve imagined your life now as a married man and father. It just goes to show how difficult life can be to predict. I’m still trying to figure out if that’s a good thing or a bad thing! Lol. If I were a seal, I would be terrified of an orca, but otherwise no.

  14. Maureen Avatar
    Maureen

    You chose such pretty flowers and that outer space one is so nice – I’m going to look for it around here. Hopefully they’ll distract you from your new temporary lawn ornament.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’ve bought it before, perhaps in a different color. I was mostly happy with my choices. I didn’t see many geraniums or petunias in colors I wanted though. The petunias tend to be trailing and I didn’t want those.

  15. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    The Honey Bucket sitting at an angle on a trailer looks unstable. I see them only sitting firmly on the ground and never on the street.
    You found some lovely plants for your gardens. I also love coleus. Coleus do the best in the shade. If the coleus puts out a bud or tiny flowers, cut them off and the plant will get fuller. Otherwise, it will get leggy and sparce.
    Tracking down a former love interest is always fascinating. I find, when people move on, it is usually for a very good reason. I’m glad you and John found each other. You make a great couple.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I would avoid using it under any circumstances because of that tilt and the possible movement of the Honey Bucket. Using a portapotty is stressful enough! I buy coleuses every year and sometimes put them in too much sun. I hope I did better this year. Mine always get tiny flowers and I do clip them off. John wasn’t with Paula for a super long time; it was a mutual decision to part. John has been a wonderful addition to my life as I hope I’ve been to his!

  16. Mary Avatar

    We have the world’s longest remodel going on next door, it started in August, and there’s been a honey bucket out front in the street this whole time. I wish they’d take it away. It’s tilted too, I can’t imagine wanting to use it like that. At least a truck comes by and cleans it every week, so it’s probably not too awful inside.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      August? That’s crazy. That’s good that it’s getting emptied once a week. I keep thinking I’m getting whiffs of this one when I’m in the front yard watering. It’s been hot/warm lately and sunny weather isn’t optimal. Blech. My neighbor says the workers will probably finish tomorrow. Fingers crossed!

  17. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    I love the flowers. Lately I’ve been admiring Coleus flowers. The ones you chose are spectacular.

    Nature calls wherever you are. Our first house WE built was a labor of love and no loan. Larry went to Kmart and bout a little how to plumbing book. His friend asked if he thought he could do it. Larry said— yes, a turd rolls down hill.

    That saying could apply to our President. Everything is going down hill!

    I am not afraid of geese. I’ve been chased by a rooster.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      There are so many striking versions of coleus! They seem to grow well for me too which is a plus. I agree with you about the country. I’m spending so much more for groceries and gas although I can afford it. So many can’t. Geese have been aggressive to me; I don’t like them! My late mom hated her grandmother’s roosters because they chased her as a child. She had a lifelong fear of them.

  18. Matt Shifley Avatar

    I am laughing so hard at Facebook suggesting Paula as a friend! The algorithm really has no shame, does it? ‘Hey, I saw you Googling this woman, want to be besties?’ Absolutely not! LOL.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It made me worry about what else goes on when I google (er…stalk?) people. Does she get the suggestion of me as a friend too? Ack!

  19. Musings Avatar

    That portable latrine is really rather scary. Wow!
    Your coleus is so gorgeous and unusual. I’ve never seen anything like it. You really do have the most beautiful plants. I am a very lazy gardener.
    John sounds like a very nice man, Margaret. And you are a beautiful person in your own right… inside and out.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The honey bucket is still here over the weekend so the crew must not have finished. Ugh! It’s supposed to be 74 today. It could get rather smelly. šŸ™ I never buy fewer than three coleuses. They are so unique. John is extremely nice and very helpful. Thank you, Kay. I don’t feel beautiful, but I am a kind person. (usually)

  20. Tonya Avatar

    When we were building our house, we had a porta-potty here on the property. I can’t recall if it was a “Honey Bucket.” But what I LOVED was also having a good-sized construction dumpster. It was so nice during that time not to have to haul our weekend (or vacation) garbage home. It was also near the dumpster that young Wylie emerged from the woods and adopted us! Isn’t it weird to have warm and fuzzy feelings about a dumpster? Lol

    My only experience with coleus is as an indoor plant (among all my macrame hanging plants). As I recall, they never did all that well and dropped their leaves, but it’s possible I wasn’t a regular waterer. This was back in the late ’70s. You got yourself a nice selection of flowers and plants!

    1. Tonya Avatar

      P.S. I will never believe in the existence of Sasquatch until there are credible scientists who find scat/DNA and claim it to be so!

      1. Margaret Avatar

        Same here!

    2. Margaret Avatar

      I feel like I would go through my garage and get rid of so much if I had a construction dumpster. I do remember the Wylie story! This Honey Bucket is still sitting here for the weekend, so I’m assuming the job isn’t finished. I’ve had good luck with coleus although I never try to overwinter them. I like to buy new ones each year; they’re all so different! Thanks, T. I try for a variety of flowers and colors. Yellows and whites aren’t my favorites though.

  21. Anne Bennett Avatar

    We went plant shopping yesterday and then potted them today. That task done for the year! Yay!

    I didn’t know you are going to Ireland. Have a great time.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      My daughters pushed (encouraged?) this trip to Ireland and it’s only been recently that I’ve made the decision to go and finished all the arrangements. Planting is a LOT of work although it wasn’t as hard this year as in other ones for some reason. I bet your place looks gorgeous! It always does.

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