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This morning I was subjected to a lukewarm and disappointing mocha. As many of you know, I prefer very hot coffee, especially on a cool, wet day, so it wasn’t the best start to my day. I completely blame the barista who was focused on other things that could have easily waited. Changing the bed and cleaning out the litter box could have happened after coffee, right?

Sometimes, instead of a packed and exciting visit to Seattle, I have to look for highlights, like admiring my prolific orange lily. Yesterday, after looking at the weather forecast and seeing the rain coming, I rushed outside to mow both my front and back lawns. It was a lot for one afternoon. Today I walked in the rain with a broken umbrella. I finally managed a long overdue get together with my parents’ (and my) beloved former neighbor. At 91 years old, she’s still a kick! I discovered that Season 2 of “Patience” is streaming on my PBS Passport. I’ve already watched two episodes. 🙂 I finished my June Book Club read, “The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie” and I’m still trying to figure it out. Is it satire? Is it supposed to be funny? And have I ever had a prime? 😂 Although I’m lukewarm about this daily minutiae, every day can’t be (or shouldn’t be?) filled with activity and thrilling events.

I did find some eye shadow for Older Daughter’s ’80s themed birthday party; now I need to figure out how to use it. I haven’t worn eye shadow since the ’80s!

This is Sharky’s last week of kindergarten; he’s immersed in all those fun (for children) end of the year festivities, like this color run.

Older Daughter didn’t have such a great time at the Color Run and limped off to her house for some first aid.

This week will get much busier with babysitting and a dinner with my brother who recently returned from a lengthy vacation. I’m still feeling kind of meh about my schedule right now but isn’t that normal for most of us? I find excitement highly overrated. Contentment in the small moments is my preference.

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41 responses to “Lukewarm”

  1. kayak woman Avatar

    “Coffee Boy” (my husband) began bringing me coffee on March 13, 2020, my first day of forever telecommuting until I finally made myself retire. So I still expect it. Usually it’s too hot for me but that has more with the cup form factor than anything.

    I use eyeshadow (if I’m going to a restaurant or something) but I use various gray-blue shades and it’s more to well, I dunno how to describe it but combined with mascara, I’d like to think I look a bit younger. But I’m probably fooling myself. As a teenager/20-something, experimenting with color was so much fun. Purple? Yes.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I like to sip my coffee so if it starts out lukewarm, it cools off way too fast. Do you still get deliveries from Coffee Boy? I stopped eye make-up when it irritated my contacts, then thought “why bother?” when I switched over to glasses. I wear lipstick for the same reason–I think it makes me look younger AND I’m sure I’m fooling myself! 🙂

  2. J Avatar

    LOL, I was trying to figure out why your barista stopped to clean the cat box, then figured it out. HA! I have that person with tea, sometimes I get distracted and it’s lukewarm when I get to it. I don’t need it piping hot, but I do not want it tepid by any means.

    Your orange lilies are gorgeous!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Some years my lilies do really well; I’ve been trying to fertilize them with bulb fertilizer, although the stuff does smell VILE. I’m glad I’m not the only one who gets distracted. I could have steamed my milk more to heat it up, but by that time, I wanted my mocha! So…my own fault.

  3. Tonya Avatar

    https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CJrq1HdLDTk <– That's a link to a quick YouTube video about applying theatrical purple eyeshadow! Lol It *might* be helpful? Or, search for purple eyeshadow application there and see what pops up. I really don't wear eyeshadow much these days either, since so many things irritate my eyes! Gah.

    Yeah, "meh" for rather boring rainy days. I've been trying to get into my Book Club book, which is Little Women. Did you ever read it? I'm not even 5% into it and I'm rolling my eyes out of my head over the histrionics.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Thank you! I will watch it for tips! Should I use mascara too? What do you think? I’ve been super busy (and will be later this week) so I’m working at enjoying today’s lazy and boring pace. The writing style of these classics is difficult to adjust to. Miss Jean Brodie is a real PITA.

      1. Tonya Avatar

        Oh yes! Definitely mascara should accompany the eyeshadow. You want your eyes to POP and mascara is the magic for that. (Eyeliner, too, but that’s a tricky road to travel.)

      2. Margaret Avatar

        I would probably poke myself in the eye trying to do eyeliner!

  4. Tonya Avatar

    P.S. Your orange lilies are STUNNING!! What a fantastic splash of color!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      They are having a banner year. I hope the Stargazer will too! I wish the dead rhody were gone; apparently, the guy who was supposed to take it down has hurt his back. 🙁

      1. Tonya Avatar

        🙁

  5. Pixie Avatar

    We had a lot of rain, six inches in two or three days and the grass has shot up. I just finished cutting it. If I leave it longer, I can’t find the dog turds and I really don’t want to step in a dog turd:)
    Your lilies are so beautiful. Do you get scarlet lily beetle there? I gave up on lilies because of the beetle.
    Have a good week:)

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Six inches–wow! It’s hard to cut thick tall grass and the dog turds add to the challenge. When we had dog(s), I would try to pick up all of them before I mowed, but I would usually miss one or more and run over them with the lawn mower wheels. Such a nasty smell! I’ve never heard of scarlet lily beetle. I’ve already lost my rhododendron and am losing my petunia to rabbits, so I sure hope my lilies hold out! Hope you have a good week too.

  6. AC Avatar

    My two photo buddies are off on photo excursions today. One was way out in the county by 4 or so. It will be a run of the mill day for me, but at least I am here for it. 🙂

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Yep, every day above ground is a good one, mundane though it might be!

  7. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    Lately Starbucks in my area has been more reliable but not consistently reliable. I used to be a regular customer. Now I pop in maybe once or twice a month. When I get my coffee, I taste it to be sure it is right. When there is a problem, I let them know immediately and get a new coffee.
    Your orange lilies are outstanding and there must be 30+ flowers on one large plant.
    I need to mow too. We have had some weekend rain and the grass is now 3 inches high.
    Purple eyeshadow sounds perfect for your 80’s themed party. T’s video reference sounds very helpful.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Starbucks is great with my drink although I’ve had them re-make it a couple times because something hasn’t been right. (taste, temperature) I’m a lousy barista though since I get distracted by tasks around the house and let my coffee and steamed milk cool off too much. This time I wanted to get the bed changed and let everything sit too long! I love both my lilies and hope the Stargazer also blooms well. Some years they do whereas in others I get very few flowers.

  8. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
    Pipe Tobacco

    My barista is very similar to yours….. and I actually prefer his approach, myself. I even usually goad him into adding ample ice to further establish a sharper, declining temperature differential. 🙂

    Ouch!!!! Your OD’s injuries are the stuff of my nightmares! I have never made it a full year without at least one “grumble” with the pavement. Sometimes the WORRY about falling like that makes me want to NOT run….. I worry it will eventually happen and I very much fear what if I were to fall and it goes beyond scrapes? Well, there already was the time I had to get a few stitches on my cheek and a cat scan (to make sure bones by the eye socket were NOT broken. I had to tell folks for about 10 days that I put up a valiant fight against a grizzly….. but lost. 😉

    I cannot imagine what it feels like to wear eye shadow….it seems like I would keep wanting to rub my eyes. But, for the party, I think it would be a wonderful addition.

    PipeTobacco

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I actually thought of you when she sent me the photo. She tried to grab a metal fence going down and that’s what cut her hand. I love your grizzly bear story! You have to make up some kind of imaginative tale because it’s too mundane just to trip and fall! I’ve recently realized that I have no idea how to remove eyeshadow and mascara if I wear it. So, that’s another thing to figure out.

      1. Tonya Avatar

        I use Neutrogena Makeup Remover Wipes. You can often find small travel size packs at the drug or grocery store (with all the trial/travel size products).

      2. Margaret Avatar

        Good to know! I will add that to my list! 🙂

  9. Luftmentsch Avatar

    What is a colour run?

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It was an activity at Sharky’s school and is described as a non-competitive 5K or fun run where participants wearing white are showered with vibrant, non-toxic colored powder at designated stations along the course. The event prioritizes fitness, fun, and community over winning.
      Personally, I wouldn’t like getting showered with colorful powder but Sharky was all smiles!

      1. Sara Avatar
        Sara

        It has its origins in the Hindu spring holiday, Holi.

      2. Margaret Avatar

        I didn’t realize that. Thank you for sharing.

      3. Luftmentsch Avatar

        I wouldn’t like getting showered with powder either!

      4. Margaret Avatar

        The shock of it would probably cause me to fall!

  10. Linda Avatar

    Dear Margaret, your lilies are absolutely stunning, dear friend! Thanks for sharing your photos, the colour run is interesting!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I would never do it because I don’t like people throwing things on me, but the kids seemed to have a great time.

  11. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    The Lily is lush.

    I wonder if I’d like Patience?

    Starting the day with good coffee is a high for me. Since Sigrid said I must take iron every day, I have to wait an hour before I get my coffee. The iron is taken with vitamin C and water on empty stomach. It sort of ruins my morning, but it’s helping me feel alive again. I put collagen in my first cup of coffee.

    That knee looks ouchy! Color runs are a fun way to stress exercising. The cross country team here has one each year.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I like mysteries, especially British ones and Patience is autistic which I find interesting and illuminating. It sounds like the iron is working well, even though it’s put off your coffee. Anticipation is great though too. I love both my lilies and am excited when they bloom profusely; they don’t every year. Sharky had a great time. My daughter didn’t. She was embarrassed to fall and then had the injuries to deal with.

  12. Jay Avatar
    Jay

    I must have my coffee (drip). I get grumpy when denied. Usually the first cup is hot out of the pot. As the day progresses though subsequent cups may need to have a boost from the microwave.
    And when distractions happen it can be hours, and occasionally a day, before the cup is rescued (found) in the microwave. 🙄

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I do nuke my drip if it gets cold although it’s hot out of the pot. However, regular mugs allow it to cool down and I’m a sipper. I’ve been known to find interesting (forgotten) things in the microwave.

  13. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    Tubular eyeshadow, dude! Kids always love the color runs. Good thing OD lives close enough to get her own first aid.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Now to figure out what look I want with that eyeshadow! I asked OD if she had gotten first aid there and she laughed. “I live right across the street, so I just limped home.”

  14. Steve Avatar

    “Contentment in the small moments” is very much my speed, too. I’ve never read “The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie” but I’ve seen the movie a couple of times — it didn’t strike me as satire or humorous. More like a tragedy. But I don’t know how faithful the movie script was to the book.

    Re. OD, ouch! Hope her knee is OK!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The book was so ridiculous that it seemed like it must be satire. Because if she was supposed to be an actual teacher…oy. I read about the author, and Miss Jean Brodie was loosely based on a teacher she had. Hopefully, VERY loosely!

  15. Michael Avatar

    I LOVE coffee, and I follow my ritual every morning. I froth milk and heat it up so that my coffee stays warm. I then sip it and read the news, and try not to get stressed out.

    Ouch…your older daughter sure took a fall. The color run 5K looks like it would have been a fun thing to watch. I love kids when they are five or six!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Me too and I like it hot, even in the summer! This morning I re-frothed my milk to make sure it was warm. I have a special machine and not a wand. OD’s knee is healing and scabbing nicely. The bruises are quite colorful! 5-6 is a good age; kids are energetic and fun but also can be more independent.

      1. Michael Avatar

        I like my coffee hot too…I have never been a fan of iced coffee. And even in a hot Virginia summer!

    2. Margaret Avatar

      I rarely drink coffee in the afternoon or in the evening; mornings are usually cool enough that a hot coffee is tasty. When I do drink decaf coffee late is in the winter.

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