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Or in English, goodbye. Adieu to the deliciously creamy Greek yogurt (normally I hate the paste like stuff!) and granola for breakfast and the Butlers Crunchy Caramel bars, which I should have bought 10 or 100 of. So long to the bus rides, the camaraderie of our group and the incredible Irish countryside and picturesque buildings. As James Joyce wrote, “They lived and loved and laughed and left.”

But first, we had to do justice to Dublin with its quirky bar names.

By this stage of the tour, I was fine simply taking a photo of the outside of Saint Patrick’s Cathedral (now Anglican, not Catholic) without going inside.

It was the same with Christ Church which I originally wanted to explore in more detail. Eventually though, we run out of gas for sightseeing and I was there!

Apparently, our president will be stopping by Dublin on the 12th, so the Garda (police) was out in force. Our local guide wasn’t restrained about mentioning the general opinion of him in Ireland and one of our new friends on the tour whispered his own pithy criticisms to me. I responded, “No North American politics…but I agree with you!”

There was even motorcycle Garda!

Our Trinity College visit was crowded, and I spent much of the time hunting down a bathroom. (don’t ask–another side-effect of travel) Ahead of our group is the Campanile (bell tower) of Trinity, but we were headed to the Book of Kells experience. What a fantastically illustrated and preserved document! I was lost in admiration while trying to not to get seasick watching the surround video of their history. I am not exaggerating about my nausea! When they transported them over the turbulent ocean, I nearly lost it.

I wasn’t intending to buy a sweatshirt (or a tee-shirt) but, just like my decision about which car to buy, I loved the color. 🙂

The Long Room of the Old Library was my favorite place at Trinity College; it was stunning. Again, I don’t need to know all the details to be struck by the beauty and history of these sites. My history teacher father would be a little ashamed of me were he still alive.

The famous Temple Bar was where I spotted the very fitting James Joyce quote.

It hasn’t escaped my notice that I’m posting on September 11th, which is a momentous date in our own history. It’s unbelievable that it’s been 25 years. I have nothing new or wise to say about the event. When I listen to the many phone calls from airplanes and the twin towers though, it’s clear that at the end, people were desperate to tell others how much they loved them and how much they would miss them. It reminds me not to wait to say those words.

My younger two grandsons lost their grandfather yesterday. He was in his mid-70s and had suffered from multiple myeloma for several years. Since he lived in the same house as their father, they saw a lot of him and will miss his presence. I doubt that Anders will understand except that he’ll probably ask, “Where’s Grandpa?” Anders’ latest passion is this stethoscope with which he actually listens to my heart and my lungs. He’s so smart!

And my littlest charmer is such a happy baby. Just being around him makes me smile, even when I don’t feel much like it.

“If we learn nothing else from this tragedy, we learn that life is short and there is no time for hate.” -Sandy Dahl, wife of Flight 93 pilot Jason Dahl

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18 responses to “Slán”

  1. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    Super cuties!
    I remember having the television on all day in class 25 years ago, everyone was astonished by the events. Nowadays, I’m sure teachers wouldn’t be allowed to do that. PBS had a good documentary of 9/11 that played last night.
    Love your travel photos!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I remember that we were told to try to keep the kids busy and distracted. So, that’s what we did. The students were very subdued. 😢 I’m finally finished with all of my Ireland posts! I think I fit in most of what I would like to remember about the trip.

  2. Ed Avatar

    Perhaps one of the 9/11 museum displays that hit me the hardest were the ones that has an audio timeline from people in the planes and towers. You could go down the row pressing the buttons and listening to what was being said. Each one felt like a gut punch since we knew the ending.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I think they’ve released quite a few of the messages because I’m seeing and hearing them many places. I can only handle a few at a time. The ones I’ve listened to have been brave, comforting and loving. Heart wrenching too.

  3. Doug M Avatar
    Doug M

    Margaret I think you’ll be singing a different tune once we get those $5000 Trump Dividend checks! Okay, this wasn’t funny in the slightest. Anyway, another round of astounding photos and I loved that one of “The Long Room”, my gosh. And I am very sorry for the loss of those boys’ grandfather… nice seeing Anders here, and Baby Ian continues to steal my heart, his smile is precious.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Will it be coming at the same time as my Doge check? Or perhaps a tariff refund? 😉The long room was astounding but SO crowded. His death wasn’t unexpected but will certainly change the dynamics of that family–which may affect my grandsons. We’ll see. 😬

  4. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    What a great trip you enjoyed. It’s overwhelming for me to even think of the bustle and hustle you had to do. Too much of anything makes me ill.

    Well, not too much of your sweet boys. Never enough time to show them how much you love them.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The one week was very packed, so I can’t imagine how exhausted I would’ve been if I had done the two week.😳 I would’ve liked to have visited Northern Ireland as well, but that would have stretched out my stay. I’m always telling the little boys how much I love them with both word and deed.

  5. kayak woman Avatar

    I have a photo of the Hairy Lemon! My daughter took it when she took my husband (and her dad) to Ireland for his 70th. I’ll post it. (I’ve probably posted it before.)

    So sorry to hear about Anders/Ian’s granddad. I was thinking as I was reading it how it might affect the family dynamics, especially since they spend time at their dad’s house.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      We didn’t go there but I couldn’t resist the photo! I’m concerned about how his dad’s death will affect the boys’ dad who isn’t known for his emotional stability to start with. 😬

      1. kayak woman Avatar

        I don’t think Liz/Bill went there either. It is a great photo op thought and fingers crossed for your grandsons.

    2. Margaret Avatar

      Looking back on it, I wish we had hit more pubs, especially for the music. But we were already so busy and tired, and the idea of loud and crowded pubs with more drinks wasn’t enticing!

  6. Siobhan Avatar
    Siobhan

    Glad you enjoyed the city of my birth- and the sweatshirt is a wonderful
    souvenir. Trinity college is one of many gems in Eire
    September 11th –
    an evil act , lives stopped suddenly , lives interrupted, children growing up with a parent, children dying – an act of evil
    Siobhan

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I did love it all! Now it has to get cold enough for me to wear the beautiful sweatshirt. There have been so many evil acts over the past 25 years (and before) that I can’t think about them too much or I feel hopeless.

  7. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
    Pipe Tobacco

    I too made a conscious decision to not write about 9/11 today, not out of not thinking about it….. but like you…. I felt there was nothing salient I could add.

    I love the idea of there being a bar called “The Hairy Lemon”!!!! So fun.

    Thinking about it, I guess I should have said a “pub” not a “bar”. I do not know if there is really any difference….. but at least in my mind, a pub seems more festive, fun, and homey. “Bar” unless it is a “Sports Bar” usually creates in my mind (at least initially) a rough “biker bar” sort of image.

    Anders looks very cute being a doctor. With his seeming interest in biology sorts of things…. maybe he will follow a path of that sort someday in college.

    Ian too looks very cute and happy…. any signs of standing or walking yet for him?

    Are these photos meaning you are officially declared Covid free….. or did you get them sent to you?

    PipeTobacco

    1. Margaret Avatar

      That’s it, I really have nothing new to say about 9-11. I think of a pub as being more casual and more beer related whereas a bar has more hard liquor? I don’t know if it’s that way in Ireland though. Ian is crawling but doesn’t pull himself up on things yet. That will be next! I’ve tested negative twice for Covid and don’t have symptoms so I may have escaped it. The last exposure I had was about a week ago.

  8. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    Your photos of IR are outstanding. You were busy and saw the best of IR. Thank you for sharing.
    I’ve been in many pubs in England and they never disappoint. The food is generally good to outstanding and people are friendly. Everybody is there to have a good time and a drink or two. The hospitality is great and all are welcome.
    I am sorry to hear about the boy’s grandfather. I suspect Anders will feel the loss and require some TLC as he processes what has happened. Ian is still a baby and less likely to be impacted.
    Anders is playing doctor! He is adorable and is very likely high achiever.
    With no signs of Covid, you’ve likely escaped it entirely. Thank goodness for small favors!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Pub food is wonderful indeed! I had no complaints about any of the food although the portions were bigger than I could eat. I hated wasting so much of the meal! Anders will be confused and will probably ask questions. I don’t think he’ll be too upset since his grandfather has been ailing and not very present for a long time.

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