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Trekking Part Two

As much as I adore having sleepovers with my older two grandsons (6 and 3), it can be exhausting. I combined a late-night conversation (deep and somewhat disturbing) with Older Daughter last night with an early morning knock on my bedroom door from Obro this morning. I hopefully thought that he wanted to come in to snuggle and might go to sleep, but he’s a constant talker and was doing some wolf howls as well. So, between that and running after hand helicopters and being lovingly engaged with the two little boys, as well as juggling food and clean-up, I’m…ready for bed at 7:30 p.m. As I keep saying to people, “I’m almost 70 years old.” And most of them respond, “But you don’t act like it!”

The trip to Dash Point State Park had an inauspicious beginning. Obro, who has the nose of a bloodhound, did NOT like the smell of the seaweed.

Sometimes you just have to give new things a try–and be patient.

Sharky eventually warmed up to the beach and even waded in the water, as Obro was fussing at me because of the sand between his toes. Well, it IS scratchy and annoying.

It was a gorgeous day at the beach with too many people and lots of barbeques. There were dogs everywhere, so I watched where I walked. Sunshine and perfect Pacific Northwest temperatures plus improved attitudes from the boys made for a perfect outing!

After the beach, we surprised the boys by taking them to a local ice cream shop. I wasn’t very impressed, but Obro loved his chocolate scoop. Eat dessert first, right?

Finally, Older Daughter posted a few more photos of Sharky’s family birthday party. Obro is getting friendlier with his littlest cousin.

Remember how I wanted a picture of me with all four grandsons? Well, this wasn’t what I had in mind. I envisioned a posed shot with everyone looking at the camera and smiling. I would have had my hair combed and lipstick on. Yet I will treasure this photo nonetheless.

This week has the potential to be crazy since Younger Daughter is working on-site instead of from home, 40 minutes away on a decent traffic day. I’ll be the backup for her boys’ pick-up since the daycare closes at 6. I now have two car seats in my backseat! Baby Daddy works until 7 p.m. so he can’t help. I also volunteered to come over before 7 a.m Wednesday to spend a few hours with Ian before delivering him to daycare, so he won’t spend as much time there. I have a coffee date with a close friend after that, and Book Club later in the day. Younger Daughter has lamented that she hates inconveniencing people, and I’ve answered that I volunteered to help out, that I love being with my grandsons and that I AM HER MOTHER. She will understand some day.

Also, cuteness overload!

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32 responses to “Trekking Part Two”

  1. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    These are wonderful photos and fun adventures! (Except for having to get up so early.)

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Obro is such an early bird. A talkative one!

  2. AC Avatar

    You have good times with the boys, which you cherish appropriately.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I want them to have great memories of me because I won’t be around forever! Plus, it’s fun to re-discover my inner child.

  3. Pixie Avatar

    Grandkids are a lot of work, your girls and grandsons are lucky to have you.
    I love your daughter’s new haircut. It suits her very well.
    So much for retirement, huh?

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I remember how my parents and mother-in-law (to some extent) surrounded me with support and it helped me be a better parent. Not perfect or even great, but better. OD isn’t sure about the haircut since it needs some styling, but I think it’s cute. I wouldn’t want to get too bored in retirement! 🙂

  4. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    The boys are growing and changing all the time and being a big part of their lives is great.
    Early morning wake-ups are so boy. My son (like his father) sprang out of bed and was ready to go. I need my first AM cup of coffee before I do anything.
    Your beach looks beautiful. MA public beaches can be covered with beach chairs, blankets and towels…wall-to-wall people.
    Obro’s reaction to seaweed is surprising. He is a character walking with his nose pinched.
    The B-day group photo is lovely.
    The video and Anders giving Ian little kisses with Ian laughing and smiling is very sweet.
    Why can’t baby daddy (BD) start his workday early and leave before 7 PM to help with the children? Managers are often happy to accommodate these requests, especially when they are for a set period of time. Maybe BD has not given this option some consideration.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I love being involved in their lives; I won’t always be so important, so I’m savoring the fun times now. Obro notices smells right away and is sensitive to them. I’m not sure whether that’s a good or bad thing! We have many beaches (both ocean and Puget Sound) but many aren’t sandy like this one. I’m happy to see that Anders is adjusting to baby brother; for a while I was nervous about that. BD doesn’t have a flexible work schedule. The shop he works in opens up later than most businesses and stays open longer.

  5. Ed Avatar

    I’m not at that stage yet and hopefully won’t be anytime soon. But I do hope I get to see a grandkid or two before I leave this earth.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I was beginning to wonder if I would ever have grandchildren. They are a delight. The key is to have them when you’re old enough to spend time together, but not too old to engage with them. Of course, all that depends on our children!

  6. Linda Avatar

    Beautiful photos, dear Margaret! Lovely smiles, wonderful time spent! I love the water!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Me too and sandy beaches are so special!

  7. Tonya Avatar

    When John and I get that whiff of seaweed smell, we both say, “Ahhhh! It smells like summer!” (We love it!)

    Your itinerary for this week makes me exhausted! I love your photos!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I love the smell too and salt water scent. I hope Obro grows used to it or he’ll be no fun at the beach. And we have so many of them!

  8. Kayak Woman Avatar

    I have a “super nose” too. One of my kids once: “Mom, what is that smell in the refrigerator?” Me: [sniff] “Old dead broccoli.”

    Living on a beach every summer, me and my “cuzzints” were always full of sand. When I had my own kids, one of them (as a toddler) was always so sandy that we kept a kid-size plastic bath tub on the deck so we could hose her down at the end of the day. My mom (TMI maybe): “She has a cup of sand in her crotch!” Mom did NOT want a bunch of sand in the cabin 🙂

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I didn’t want a bunch of sand coming in the house either. It’s very hard to get rid of, like glitter. I have a decent nose, but nothing like Obro! (and you apparently)

  9. Maureen Avatar
    Maureen

    You are a very busy person! It looks like you are having lots of fun with the grands and daughters. I’m glad to hear that BabyDaddy is working.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’m usually not that busy but sometimes everything happens at the same time. I love time with family!

  10. Jay Avatar

    I think the 4 grandkids photo is great. It’s real and not staged. Your week does sound busy, and wonderful. As noted by KW above, sand was a constant of our summers. Even now the most important part is trying to keep it out of bed.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Thanks! I still wish we had done a posed picture though. With kids, you still get them making funny faces or not looking at the camera. Sand is great between the toes, but it certainly does not belong in certain places, both on the body or in a bed. I hated sand in my mouth! It was so hard to get rid of the grit.

  11. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    Life is so hard when you have two little ones. Leaving them at care sites is frightening. Those boys are lucky the have a Grand to help out. She’s driving an hour and half daily. That alone is exhausting.

    I couldn’t smell the seaweed and I picked it up and examined it closely. I guess all my senses are dead.

    Your trip is coming up.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It’s a stressful situation to work and have kids in daycare. What about when they get sick? How about if your hours don’t work well with the daycare times? I like helping out although I wouldn’t want to get up that early every day. I did it for 37 years as a teacher and retirement means sleeping until whenever I want–usually about 8 a.m. Obro has an incredible nose; I like the smell of the salt water and seaweed whereas he (so far) doesn’t. My trip is only a few months away, eek! I need to buy a few new clothes.

  12. Luftmentsch Avatar

    It’s very hard to get photos with young children. We had a small family thing on Monday and it was impossible to get R and Nephew looking at the camera at the same time.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I agree! There must be tricks that photographers use to get decent photos of kids/families. Unfortunately, I don’t know them!

  13. Steve Avatar

    I think the one of you with the four grandsons is terrific.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Thanks, Steve! It’s the only one I have, so far. That will have to be OK.

  14. Michael Avatar

    I like the one of you with your grandsons. Sometimes the best photos aren’t posed, and how would one get all four to look at the camera at once anyway? Your daughters are lucky to have you close by.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      You’re so right, Michael! Even in a posed shot, someone would be grimacing, crying or not looking at the camera. Still…I long for that perfect photo!

  15. Doug M Avatar
    Doug M

    Margaret I know you want to help, and love your grandsons, but honestly it’s wonderful how big a part you play in their lives. And I love that sweet photo of all of you together at the end–and a bit more dressed up one would be great! 🙂

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Thanks, Doug! I usually dislike candid photos of myself because I tend to make funny faces. Or I smirk! However, I’ll be happy with what I get. I enjoy being an important person in their lives–for the time being. They are growing up fast and soon friends and other things will be much more interesting.

  16. Midwest Mark Avatar

    I never had a problem when my parents volunteered to help out when the kids were little. There were days where I didn’t know how I’d have survived without them!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The way I look at it, it’s a win-win. I want to spend time with my grandsons and in doing so, I support and help out my daughters.

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