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As we face our first Heat Advisory, the comments on news articles are also heating up. I get SO tired of “That’s not very hot. You should deal with Xstate’s temperatures” or “Just get air conditioning!” (my heat pump cost $14,000–do most people have that?) We used to rarely need A/C, but times have changed, and our summers seem hotter and drier. More wildfires too. 🙁 So, because I didn’t want to mow the lawn in 90 degrees, nor will I have time in the midst of Granny Nannying tomorrow and Saturday, I did both the front and back yards and now am sitting in my recliner, feeling every year of nearly 70.

The bunnies are still nibbling on my petunia in spite of the cinnamon. Suddenly, the rabbits are NOT so cute.

My skeleton rhododendron is detracting from my other beautifully flowering plants. I’ve texted Thu once already with no response; it’s time to figure out what’s going on and if his back will allow him to remove the rhody. Much as I like the guy, I want the job done SOON.

Older Daughter is deciding on an outfit for her 40th birthday party and its ’80s theme. She found some awesome jeans and a shirt with shoulder pads but seems dissatisfied with the look. I wonder what she’ll do with her hair. I haven’t mentioned my own costume. I’m trying to surprise her; unfortunately, she knows me well enough to suspect me of subterfuge.

As for my outfit today, I thought my new camo leggings were black so I wore a black shirt. They’re actually blue! However, I was too lazy to change.

If you have Next Door or Being Neighborly, do they often make you grumpy? Yesterday, I read a plea from a mother whose son didn’t want to go through graduation ceremonies (at my old high school) so he didn’t order a cap and gown. Now, only a couple days before graduation, he’s changed his mind; the mom was upset that when she called the school, they didn’t have a cap and gown just lying around for her son. And we wonder why some people are so irresponsible? I didn’t comment because I didn’t trust myself to be nice. It’s getting that way on Facebook too…

I think I need a cold drink and to chill out–in many ways. I should work on my perspective since many have it way worse than I do. However, I’m a person who has to rant a little, then I can calm down and laugh at myself. That’s getting more difficult in today’s world though.

In other news, please send healthy and healing thoughts to an excellent, supportive and caring blog friend who has been fighting long covid for years (miserable!) and is now in the hospital with other issues, requiring surgery and a week-long stay. Thinking of you, Doug!

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8 responses to “Grumbles”

  1. Jay Avatar
    Jay

    Good on you for getting both yards done. Carl has been picking away at weeding and just requested an electric mower for his birthday, to replace our old reel mower. I did get a new hose and sprinkler so I don’t have to continuously cart things from the front yard to the back yard and back again.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’ll want to hear about how that electric mower works. When my current one dies (or rusts out, whichever comes first), I may go electric. I have a fairly big yard though and I would want the charge to last long enough. You remind me that I want to buy another nozzle for my back hose. I have to transfer the one I have back and forth when I water; it’s a pain!

  2. AC Avatar

    I couldn’t comment this morning, but it seems to be working now. Not that I have anything to say. 🤓

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I wonder why it wasn’t working. I sometimes have trouble commenting on Blogger from Edge and need to change browsers. Other times, it works fine. The mysteries of the internet!

  3. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    Next Door seems to always have annoying posts or lots of arguing. Best healthy wishes to your friend.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Some of the people on there seem very needy or perhaps lonely. I feel sorry for them, yet also a little distrustful. Thanks, Marie. Doug has had a rough go of it and can’t seem to catch a break. 🙁 He deserves so much better!

  4. Ceci Avatar
    Ceci

    Upsetting news about Doug! Thanks for the heads up.

    Ceci

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’ve been emailing with him; although I told him not to respond to my latest one, he hasn’t–which is unusual for him. He had a severe gall bladder attack and has had two operations. He didn’t say what they were. I sure wish I lived closer!

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