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Not me, yet, unless you count checking off two more places for my Downtown Puyallup Coffee Crawl. Rainier Valley Coffee provided an excellent mocha while my doughnut at Happy Donuts was a disappointment. I’m not fond of them to start with but thought the bear claw might be tasty. After waiting in a long line, we finally achieved our passport stamp; surprisingly, my bear claw had apples in it and little to no cinnamon. Although I like apples (I’m a lifelong Washingtonian after all), the bear claw was rather anemic and needed much more spice. My friend and I will hit a few more spots this week; we’re leaving the “uninteresting” one for last: a juice/smoothie bar. I will only rant a little about putting spinach, kale, turmeric, cayenne, protein powder, nasty tasting vitamins, etc. in a smoothie, as well as using unpasteurized juice. I’m a big believer in pasteurization!

Thanks to the now cleaner air (temporary, unfortunately), Younger Daughter and I trekked to a local park with a trail where Anders could bike on his balance bike. “I’m riding my bike!” He also responded when a woman said “Hi” to him, “I’m not saying hi.” Ouch, have I mentioned that he’s three?

Ian, now the proud possessor of four teeth, traveled in style and smiled at the passersby. As usual, many people commented on his eyes, “He has such beautiful blue eyes!”

In the meantime, Older Daughter drove the boys to a friend’s son’s birthday party in Oregon; they also made the time to visit Lloyd Center for the last time to say goodbye. The mall is closing and in its unique Portland way, there were impromptu poetry readings, people selling random items, others making off with plants, bikers pedaling through the ghost mall, people doing Beyblade battles and random parades. Closure is important, isn’t it?

Many will deeply miss the center ice rink; I shed a few tears over this elderly couple doing their last skate.

The Lloyd Center event reminded me of when John and I traveled to Seattle for the last days of the Alaskan Way Viaduct. John was eager to participate whereas I was indifferent. However, I found much to enjoy in the activities and the people watching.

I loved seeing the kids get into the spirit of decorating the viaduct before it was torn down.

True words, about more than just the tearing down of a highway or the closing of a mall.

John staged this creative photo of us waving goodbye, much better than a full face selfie.

Speaking of selfies, here is a photo of my glasses before I had the new and outrageously expensive new lenses put in.

After picking up the revamped glasses and trying to adjust to them, I’ve realized that they’re messed up. John noticed first, “Why are they sitting so high up?” I’d been struggling with them, especially reading, but assumed it was because it was a slightly different prescription. Tomorrow they’ll go back to the optometrist where they’d better not give me any trouble about them being WRONG. I didn’t dot the glasses where my pupil was, nor did I drill the holes for the lenses and the nose piece. And it’s not simply that they look funny, they’re progressive bifocals which means that where I’m looking is out of whack. I’ve reverted to my back up pair which are so much more comfortable; I can see and read without any problems!

My first birthday card arrived yesterday from a close friend; I smiled but also grimaced. She’s been texting me from Alaska, where she used to live and still has many friends; she shared this photo of fresh red salmon, which we call sockeye here.

Look at that color! Knowing me as well as he does, John said, “You want the fish, but I bet you’re also drooling over the shirt.” 🙂

I’m fairly sure that I’ll be adding to my tee-shirt collection while I’m over in Ireland.

Comments

30 responses to “Travelers”

  1. Doug M Avatar
    Doug M

    I’m going to throw something, where is my comment?? This is the second time in 2 days! I was just saying that I love seeing Anders and baby Ian at the top and his big dimpled smile, and that I knew something was wrong with your new lenses before reading John’s comment. And for the money you probably paid I’d be very very upset. Love the birthday card too! I am now going to press comment again, I wonder if this is happening to anyone else?

    1. Margaret Avatar

      No one has said anything, but when they read your comment, maybe they will chime in with their own experiences. I’ve had trouble sometimes commenting, usually when people are using Disqus. It’s a real pain! It was fun to get out with the little boys although it was a little too hot.

      1. Doug M Avatar
        Doug M

        Thanks Margaret, sorry about that it’s just happening when I comment on my tablet. Anyway I hope your glasses are resolved right away. I really am surprised by that!

    2. Margaret Avatar

      I’ve never had a problem with my glasses before, so this is a new and frustrating experience. I may have to do as John advises and go with Costco, which is much cheaper. I’ve always been worried about how they would handle my complicated lenses, but they certainly can’t do any worse than this.

  2. Maureen Avatar
    Maureen

    Good luck getting the glasses adjusted. I’ve grown used to having things done poorly the first time and having to go back. Am I just getting picky or are services of poorer quality? You do go to the most interesting places! Anders and Ian both look so happy!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The optometrist I’d seen for decades retired and the new ones who took over from him aren’t impressive. They do a lot of upselling of eye vitamins and other stuff that makes me trust them even less. John is always on the lookout for new and different adventures; he’s good for me, since I’m kind of a stick-in-the-mud. 🙂

  3. raincharm Avatar
    raincharm

    Saying goodbye to inanimate objects can be good. A way to grieve a friendly place. My biggest goodbye was to the Kingdome. We watched it implode from Pier 66.
    The kids are cute as always.
    I know if we were in Ireland a Guinness and Guinness paraphernalia would definitely be part of the trip. T-shirts are a good way to extend the trip, although knowing when they have literally worn out their welcome can be difficult.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Yes, I think that having parting rituals helps bring closure. I think I’ve seen the Kingdome implosion on television more than once. My memories of the place are of a couple Seahawks games and a Led Zeppelin concert. I do hold onto T-shirts too long! They start getting holes and rips in the armpits. That’s my excuse for buying new ones anyway. 😂

  4. Michael Avatar

    That coffee crawl is such a great idea. I checked out the link and read through it. I even looked up Puyallup on a map to see exactly where it is. I didn’t realize you lived closer to Tacoma than Seattle. I wear progressive bifocals as well, and I hate it when the glasses aren’t adjusted properly. Hopefully you will get them adjusted soon. That photo of you and John waving is amazing. I have no idea how he did that!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I could walk into the city limits of Tacoma, although not to the downtown area. 🙂 I love where I live because Tacoma, Seattle, Olympia, the ocean beaches, Puget Sound (Salish Sea) and Mount Rainier are all accessible. Portland too! I’m enjoying the coffee crawl; some places I’ll probably go back to and others not. I’m very irritated to have to take the glasses back and worried that I won’t get the corrected ones before I leave on my trip. I always carry a spare set! I don’t remember how John did that photo either.

  5. AC Avatar

    Ian’s eyes reminded me of this.

    “Science shows that almost all blue-eyed people share a single common ancestor. Research by the University of Copenhagen found that a genetic mutation arose 6,000 to 10,000 years ago, creating a “switch” that limits eye pigment.”

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Ian is (so far) my only blue-eyed grandson. Anders’ eyes were blue for quite a long time, then turned green. My older grandsons have very dark brown eyes like their parents’.

      1. AC Avatar

        The hidden gene emerged.

    2. Margaret Avatar

      My late husband’s mother had very blue eyes and so did my Scottish grandfather so it was not necessarily a hidden gene, but a recessive one.

  6. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    Those blue eyes are so special. Maybe they won’t turn green. Anders can ride his bike at 3! Wow. Greta learned early. She’s really athletic. Truth is Ada still can barely peddle along. She’s still not confident. Greta road in the street. Ada isn’t even very interested in riding. She is learning to do cartwheels and round offs. With Greta’s help. All children are different.

    I don’t think Anders needs to say hi to strangers! 😂

    Closings of things we love are sad. Can you ice skate?

    They did not center your pupil. Good grief! Laura orders mine on line. I taught my eye doctor. She gives me a number for Laura to use. My sister wears trifocals. Sounds awful.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I would like Ian’s eyes to stay blue but have no control over it. Big green eyes would be pretty too. Ian is on a balance bike, so not really riding, just getting the idea of how to manage. Sharky wasn’t interested in riding a bike either until suddenly he was and was determined to learn. Now he rides well but isn’t as passionate about it as he used to be. Kids are all different indeed! I can ice skate, not well though. Strong ankles are needed and mine aren’t the greatest. 🙂 I’m headed down to the optometrist soon–wish me luck!

  7. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
    Pipe Tobacco

    Haha! Beyblades….. they are rather fun and my youngest boy was into them for a while….. brings back memories!

    But I laugh….. because the photo you show next to the part about Beyblades….. had me imagining at first that you meant PEOPLE were pretending to BE Beyblades….. and there was some sort of choreographed HUMAN BEYBLADE event at the closing mall!

    I tend to like the various green smoothies on the rare instance I have a smoothie. I like the flavors of kale, matcha, spinach, etc. But UNPASTEURIZED juices?!?! Woah! Louis Pasteur saved probably millions of folks with this food handling process he developed!!!! It boggles the mind about the anti-science mindsets sometimes. Public Health Medicine is now perceived by far too many folks as villainous.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I had never heard of Beyblades and had to look it up! I included the link for those who are as ignorant as I am. Although both daughters make delicious kale salads and John is great with spinach salads, I’m not fond of them in drinks. I won’t touch an unpasteurized fruit drink, so I intend to only buy food there. I continue to be appalled and shocked by the anti-science mindsets, especially since it affects ALL of us. Don’t get me started on the anti-vax folks…

  8. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
    Pipe Tobacco

    I hope the optometrist repairs your glasses. It could be just simple nosepiece adjustments….. and hopefully NOT a complete redo if they measured wrong.

    Still…. progressive lenses are NOT for me…. I continually feel motion sick in them….. because I move my eyes too much instead of my head (which is what “progressive folks” learn to do.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Great call, PT! I had catastrophized the issue but the optician simply took the glasses back, adjusted the nose piece (as you suspected) and now they’re fine. SO, you’re a shifty eyed guy, eh? 🙂 I started out with progressives and love them although they did require some adjustments. At first, I was having difficulty driving with them until I realized that I had my head up and I needed to lower my chin. Now it’s natural. John is like you and didn’t adapt well to the progressive lenses and went back to the lined ones.

  9. Midwest Mark Avatar

    I wasn’t a regular by any means (Clackamas Town Center was more my speed), but it’s still sad to see Lloyd Center close. My mom is a big fan of Joe Brown’s Carmel Corn, and is lamenting that it’ll be harder to get now. RIP, LC.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’m sad about it and I’m not sure I’ve ever been in it although I have spent quite a lot of time in Portland. It’s hard to accept changes, especially big ones. I would be devastated if our local mall closed. I don’t go there often, but when I do, I love looking around and buying a few things. (usually books at the bookstore or hand soaps at Bath and Body Works)

  10. Ed Avatar

    We don’t see too many bear claws around here and I’ve never heard of one being apple filled. We have apple fritters which are my favorite but google assures me that it isn’t the same as a bear claw. Fortunately, I maybe consume about 2 or 3 of them a year even if a good friend of my owns a donut shop here in town. She is always asking why she rarely sees me support her business and I always tell her it is because I’m the one who has to support my weight.

    As someone with blue eyes, the comments stopped soon before my teens. I think in my teens, people thought I would think they were hitting on me and now as an adult, I think both my wife and I would think someone was hitting on me by commenting on my blue eyes. So your grandson should enjoy the comments before they stop.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I was extremely disappointed. I don’t often see bear claws at bakeries. I was deciding between one and an apple fritter and I should have gone with the fritter! I rarely ever eat doughnuts, so it was a big deal to pick one out. Bright blue eyes are unusual although many people enhance their eye color with contacts these days. Ian doesn’t though!

  11. Linda Avatar

    Hi Margaret, I love all your photos! And I absolutely love fresh salmon!!!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Having had fresh red salmon in Alaska, I can verify that it is mouthwatering! 😋

  12. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    Doing all the coffee rounds and using your passport, you’ll know where to find the best coffee and baked goods. Our coffee shops are not always consistently good.
    Anders riding a 2-wheeler at age 3 is amazing. He’s so proud of himself. He is a quick learner, and your YD is keeping him engaged and active with great activities.
    Ian is a sweetheart and those blue eyes are amazing. I do not believe I have ever seen blue eyes like his.
    The photo of you and John waving goodbye is outstanding.
    Indoor ice skating is lots of fun. Hopefully a new rink will be built.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It’s kind of dangerous to know where all the best coffees and baked goods are though. 😂I make a very good mocha at my house, but it’s fun to have someone else make one for me. Costly though! Anders was on a balance bike, which has no pedals. It’s a type of bike that is used to get them used to having to balance versus training wheels which don’t really teach them that skill. I do love Ian’s eyes! He’s a very sweet little guy.

  13. Steve Avatar

    That IS a great shirt in the last picture. I’m so glad people were making off with plants from the closing mall! There is nothing sadder than stranded plants dying in a shuttered shopping center. I’m with you on pasteurization!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I admire the way they turned a sad event like a closure into a celebration. I agree about the plants! I would indeed love to have that shirt.

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