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Contagion and Cats

Sunday, I sat in the ER room with Obro (swollen eye) and Older Daughter, both of us masked, while she complained about her horribly sore throat. I asked, “Do you have any congestion?” When she said no, I told her she needed to see a doctor ASAP. Then the hospital pediatrician randomly mentioned strep throat and OD and I froze. Thus, after a day of testing, it’s turned out that everyone in their family has tested positive for strep, although Sharky is asymptomatic at the moment. There are enough antibiotics in their house to open a pharmacy! What about me? OD’s doctor claims that old people (ouch!) rarely get strep throat; we’ve been exposed to the bacteria numerous times and mostly have immunity to it. Strep also infects the tonsils which I don’t have as of 2nd grade. I’m hoping that I’ll avoid this latest contagion but it’s only Tuesday and the incubation of strep is 2-5 days. Fingers crossed!

Sadly, the Full House of Illness happened today on OD and SIL’s eighth wedding anniversary. They’re supposed to be going on a date night tomorrow with me babysitting…

The 30th would have been my dad’s 98th birthday and I think of him every day. I’ve discovered that due to my phone automatically taking live photos, I can still hear his chuckle and my mom’s voice. What a precious gift!

A friend who couldn’t attend my birthday party due to illness treated me to a coffee and quiche at the Barnes and Noble coffee shop; she also brought me some lovely gifts. For those of you who don’t know the history of my black cat, Mari, she didn’t start out being mine and I wouldn’t have chosen her. I had strongly warned my YD (in college at the time) NOT to get a cat, that I didn’t want one if she couldn’t keep it, etc. So, in no surprise, she adopted a black cat from a shelter, then a couple years later (2014) decided to teach in South Korea for a year. “No one will take Mari, Mom! Could you help me out?” That’s how I ended up with a cat who originally despised me, scratched me constantly and attacked my head from the half wall on the stairs when I went up to my bedroom. Over time though, we came to love each other and now she worships the ground I walk on. When YD returned from South Korea, she graciously allowed me to keep Mari who by that time was an integral part of my one-person household.

My second present was this black cat bookmark which is holding my place in “Whistler” by Ann Patchett. I love the way she writes and the beauty of her character development.

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Prior to Mari we had a (non-black) family cat named Kendra Michelle. She was a barn kitten that my husband took away from her mother before she was weaned. Because of that, we had to bottle feed her and I blame her nasty disposition on lack of social skills taught by Mama Cat.

Or did she just hate me?

Today, we’ve had sporadic rain, some wind and an earthquake (couldn’t feel it). The weather didn’t keep me from my walk; in fact, I wore too much gear and was sweltering (glowing?) in my rubberized raincoat. John’s El Paso kids are experiencing floods; he sent me a picture of one of his granddaughters kayaking in their yard. So, I guess I won’t complain about the weather. Not yet anyway!

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36 responses to “Contagion and Cats”

  1. Marie Avatar
    Marie

    We didn’t feel the earthquake either. No fun having the whole family with strep. Hopefully you’ve had it enough already!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      My friend Tonya felt it on Harstine Island so maybe it was centered somewhat west of us? I hope the antibiotics work fast! I’ve only had strep throat once in my life and it felt like someone was knifing me in the throat.

  2. ceci Avatar
    ceci

    Wow, hope you are lucky and don’t get strep, even at your tender age. Or have to go kayaking in your yard. We’ve been traveling and I am not keeping up with the news, didn’t realize TX was having so much flooding!

    Ceci

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Old age has to be good for something health-wise, right? It sure doesn’t have many advantages otherwise. John says that many places around the country are having awful weather. 😮

  3. Linda Avatar

    Beautiful photos, dear Margaret! And of course you know I love cats. 🙂 Thank you so much for sharing, dear friend. I can understand you were sweltering in your coat. The blue coat looks so good on you!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Thank you! I love that shade of blue and wear it a lot. I’ve become a definite cat person over the years.

  4. Ed Avatar

    Thus far, strep has not visited our household and I don’t recall either of my kids getting it. I do however remember getting it myself many times as a kid.

    I hope a black cat, or any other color, isn’t in my future. My eldest is really jonesing for one and I keep telling her how much of a shackle they can be to someone wanting to get out and explore.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      It’s highly contagious but I’ve only had it once as far as I know. It felt like knives cutting my throat–awful. As a youngster I had lots of tonsillitis and eventually had the tonsils removed. Cats are not as dependent as dogs, but they do still tie you down.

      1. addofio Avatar

        When I was a kid, maybe five years old, I had strep three times in a fairly short time frame, for which the doctor gave me penicillin shots, which were very painful. The last time I, I overheard the doctor tell my mother that if I got it again, he’d take my tonsils out. My brother’s best friend had had his out a few months before and had a terrible time with it—lots of post-op pain, which had impressed me a lot. I didn’t get strep again and still have my tonsils. I’ve always half believed that that was psychosomatic—I really, really didn’t want another shot of penicillin, nor the operation!

      2. Margaret Avatar

        Back in those days, I don’t know if they had the testing that they use now to distinguish strep from tonsillitis. Who knows? I may have been having strep all those times, or some of them at least. They routinely took out the tonsils for chronic sore throats whereas now they don’t. Improved antibiotics too? I remember being very excited to be in the hospital for my tonsillectomy because I was going to get ICE CREAM after. As a dentist’s granddaughter, we didn’t get many sweets growing up. I cried hard when my throat hurt so badly after the surgery that I didn’t want the ice cream. 🙁

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Yes! I’m enjoying it. Have you read it?

  5. AC Avatar

    I didn’t know the story of Mari. We had a tuxedo cat, Rocky, whom we inherited from my daughter. He was a good one.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I’d recently been widowed when I took Mari in and she was eventually loving and great company.

  6. Doug M Avatar
    Doug M

    I sure hope you’re spared that awful strep, Margaret. That was interesting about older people not getting it as much. That was also a lovely photo of OD and her hubby, I’ve always thought they look related. Aren’t those the ones that last the longest? And I liked your Mari style socks 😊

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I was relieved about the old people and strep but could still get it. I’m sure I was exposed a lot due to my 37 years in the classroom. OD and her hubby have dark brown hair and eyes but otherwise I don’t see a resemblance, probably because I know them so well. The Mari socks are longer than I normally wear but I’ll have to figure out how I can show them off.

      1. Doug M Avatar
        Doug M

        37 years in the classroom! That amazes me! 🙂

      2. Margaret Avatar

        It sounds like a long time but it didn’t feel like it. I had mostly great students and many close teacher friends.

  7. Luftmentsch Avatar

    I hope you don’t fall ill Margaret! I think we call strep throat ‘tonsilitis.’

    We haven’t been on a date night since before R was born. We tried a few weeks ago, but didn’t make it (I think I was unwell and E had a lot of work).

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I hope I don’t either. At least I know what to watch for. A date night will happen; it just might take a few tries!

  8. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    You dodged the Covid now on to dodging strep! Hopefully, your luck hasn’t run out.

    I wanted to say, when Erin was three, I waited to go to the emr as it was thanksgiving. She had a huge tumor growing daily and it was cancerous. Never wait. Go. Every hour was important for Erin’s life!

    I love the cat bookmark. I wonder if there’s a crocheted cat book mark.

    I am going to request Whistler.

    So glad you walked. It’s a habit. In two weeks a habit is pretty much broken if you don’t practice it. Go today! It’s time for you. You can think. Clear your head. Slow your racing mind!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I feel like I’ll be dodging a lot this fall/winter. People in my circle seem to be sick frequently. Thank you for sharing that story; it reminds me to be vigilant. Both my daughters are! The cat bookmark is very cool although I had trouble figuring it out at first. LOL Whistler is well-written, but not full of action.

  9. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    You may realize by now, Margaret, I’m not in to action…I’m more slow mo!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The books you’ve liked that I’ve read I’ve also liked, so I hope you enjoy “Whistler!”

  10. Susan Avatar
    Susan

    In IR you were exposed to Covid and now you’re newly exposed to strep. Your immune system is remarkably strong and hopefully you will not get strep.
    Your daughter is not so lucky, I can’t believe her entire family has strep. A few courses of antibiotics should resolve the strep. Still! No fun being sick.
    I hear, strep, flu, and Covid are circulating and all being contagious, the schools and day cares are struggling.
    I saw the flooding in TX and Brooklyn, NY. Kayaking on city streets and backyards certainly gives a new twist to the sport. Water filled basements is a big problem involving lots of repairs.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      From what I see in the news, lots of “bugs” are circulating right now. I did fine when I taught although those were older kids and not as prone to the diseases or they wanted to stay home when they were sick. In the Texas video, I could hear a pump running, so hopefully they can keep the water from their storage shed and casita. It will be close!

  11. janiejunebug Avatar
    janiejunebug

    You have a beautiful smile, Margaret. Those black cat socks are great. I suspect date night for the anniversary will have to be postponed. I have never had strep, unless I had it as a child, Mother ignored it, and I somehow magically recovered without antibiotics. Mother preferred to ignore our illnesses. Whistler (autographed) is on my TBR shelf and will be started soon. Love Ann Patchett. Love you. Love the world is all its glory and pain.

    Love,
    Janie

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Love, love, love back at you! Thanks for the compliment; I’m a dentist’s granddaughter and teeth were very important in my family. Grandpa would be appalled at how many sweets I now eat and that I still don’t floss. He berated me about it constantly! I wonder how many times the doctor thought I had tonsillitis when I actually had strep. I’m not sure there was a test for it back then. Tonsillectomies were common whereas now they’re rare. Many illnesses will resolve on their own but not all. Those are the ones we worry about. I too enjoy Patchett and am liking the book so far.

  12. Michael Avatar

    I had my tonsils out when I was 25 after lots and lots of infections. I haven’t had strep throat in years, but when I first began teaching, I sure had a lot of bouts of it. I don’t know much about cats as I am terribly allergic to them. I remember my neighbors years ago were going away and asked me to feed their cats. They were outdoor cats, so I said no problem. When I was feeding them one morning, I bent down to pet one, thinking that maybe they aren’t so bad, thinking that I’d wash my hands right away so I wouldn’t start the sneezing, etc. Well, the cat scratched me terribly and drew blood. I haven’t touched a cat since!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Having your tonsils out at 25 must have been excruciating! Strep does tend to settle in (on?) the tonsils and without them, perhaps we’re safer from the bacteria? People are much more allergic to cats than to dogs. John has a reaction to my older daughter’s long-haired cats but as long as he keeps his distance from Mari, he’s OK. And Mari is fine with that too!

      1. Michael Avatar

        It was simply awful. I was having tonsillitis very frequently, and so out they went. One of my best friends is someone who I taught with for years and years, and she retired a few years before me. Whenever I go to her house, within a few minutes, my eyes start itching as she is keeping her daughter’s cat for her.

    2. Margaret Avatar

      Both my daughters and all of my grandsons so far have their tonsils. I’m not even sure what the tonsils do! You are more allergic than John is. He doesn’t seem bothered when he’s at my house and Mari is around as long as she doesn’t come too close or get in his face. No chances of that! Mari generally doesn’t like men, even when they give her treats like John does.

  13. Maureen Avatar
    Maureen

    I just finished Ann Patchett’s The Dutch House, which I’m intrigued by, but had a hard time believing one of the characters. I’ll enjoy our discussion though. I think we’re going to read more of her books going forward. Here’s hoping you avoiding the strep!

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I thought the ending of that one was very unrealistic. My favorite of Patchett’s is “State of Wonder.” if I could decide which ailment I would get it would be a cold and not strep or Covid.😬

  14. kayak woman Avatar

    Hahahaha! I commented on your yesterday’s blog before reading this one. We were both in 2nd grade when we got our tonsils out! I am not medically trained at all (yeesh!) but thinking back and channeling my doctor-uncle, I think strep was what caused a lot of tonsil infections, so I don’t think tonsillitis was an actual disease. But I don’t know. Antibiotics were certainly available back then but they didn’t have the dosages down, especially for small children. A girl my age (5 at the time) died from too many antibiotics. That’s the short story, I can’t remember the details.

    I think OD’s doc is right that older folks (like us) don’t often get strep. Unfortunately, what we are susceptible to are hospital-acquired infections like “c.diff” which didn’t kill my mom but took her down to a space she couldn’t recover from.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I think the tonsils can get inflamed and painful although not with the strep bacteria. I don’t miss mine! I remember those horrible sore throats. C.diff is a scary one; my mom got that a couple times in rehab places or maybe the hospital. It was miserable for her.

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