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“Positivity meant solving the problems. Solving them and letting them go. Or it meant not solving the problems but coexisting with them peacefully.”-Ann Patchett, “Whistler”

A few weeks ago, as John and I were going into the local hardware store for plumbing supplies (blech!), I spotted bags of tulips in the front and was tempted by a couple pretty two-toned ones. In famous last words, “I have plenty of tulips!” Then yesterday while weeding and putting weed-resistant granules on my new flowerbeds, I had an epiphany: Spring will be so much more colorful if I plant tulips in these areas too!” So, I’m off today to buy a collection of various colored tulips. In a bit of a dilemma, should I put them in rows, in clusters or in a random configuration? John votes clusters and I’ve eliminated rows; if some didn’t bloom, there would be holes and that would bug me. A lot.

I’ve needed positive therapy this week between worry about Younger Daughter (constant but sometimes more intense) and concern about Ian, who has been suffering from nummular eczema.

Poor little guy! My sister-in-law, a proudly ignorant anti-vax, anti-mask, natural remedies person (of obvious political proclivities), suggested beef tallow to my daughter. That sounds not just icky but ineffective. I won’t go into all the medical care and interventions her family has used in the past since that just makes me furious. I did have a decent chat with my brother and her at my niece J’s volleyball game; J. is a new student at a nearby Christian school and was delighted that I attended her game. She played very well and her team surprisingly won. (they were 1-11) She’s a libero, which I had to look up. (a back court player–mainly defensive in setting and passing) I was shocked at the scoring; the team used to only score if serving. I guess the rules have changed since I played volleyball in P.E. in 1972!

The fall colors are cheering me up, not to mention the blue sky and high 60s. It’s my kind of weather.

John also made me laugh with catnip spray which caused Mari to act even stranger than normal. 🙂

Obro’s eclectic outfit was delightful. He’s a quirky kid and so lovable. That sweet smile…

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Beware of scams! I doubted this message was real because I couldn’t see any purpose in texting a temporary number, whatever that even is. Just in case though, I contacted both my daughters. I think OD was a little offended that I thought it might be her.

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As someone who uses capitals, punctuation and even semi-colons in my texts, I obviously wouldn’t fit in with Generation Z. Should I have pointed out to OD, the Millennial, that she didn’t put a period at the end of her sentences? 😉

Now, onward to Tulip Town aka McLendon Hardware!

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5 responses to “Tulip Therapy”

  1. Marie Godsey Avatar
    Marie Godsey

    I’ve learned that periods at the end of texts means you’re not in a great mood or angry. (Not so in blog messages!) My mom often texts “Okay.” I take it as annoyed.
    Hopefully Ian gets some relief! That looks so itchy.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      He’s such a sweet baby that to see him in discomfort is awful! I think she’ll use some steroids just to get it under control, but that’s not a long-term solution. I didn’t know that about the period at the end of text messages. I must sound angry all the time! 😳

  2. Pixie Avatar

    I doubt that you can have too many tulips. Ask the Dutch:) I tend to plant everything so that there is no empty spaces which can cause problems and require editing.
    Poor little Ian, that rash looks unpleasant. As for your sister in law, I can’t imagine being proud of my ignorance.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      I love tulips, but once they’ve stopped blooming, and you have to wait for the leaves to die down, it’s a very disturbing time of year for me. Lol My nephew had a very serious platelet condition and had many infusions and eventually had his spleen taken out. He was also on Accutane for acne. My sister-in-law is dismissive of medical care except when she needs it and is never thankful for the nurses and doctors, but puts any positive results 💯 down to prayer. Although I’m not criticizing the effects of prayer, I resent the way she takes advantage of the system without being grateful at all.

  3. Linda Avatar

    That eczema looks very sore! Beautiful photos, dear Margaret.

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