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Stories of the San Juans

I would love to say that the trip was idyllic and perfect. Like most events involving people (especially one who didn’t want to be there and was negative, cutting and angry the whole time), it had its beautiful ups and some terrific downs. I can’t go into any details except to express my disappointment and shock and my sinking feeling that this will have long-lasting ramifications. Vagueblogging, eh?

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This boy loved the ferry and kept asking us numerous times on the 3-hour drive up there, “When will we get on the boat?”

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This is our boat, the Samish. It was HUGE! I very much enjoyed the no-nonsense attitude of the WSDOT employees who called out a Ford pick-up whose car alarm kept going off, as well as an Audi from Oregon, “You will need to go and sit in your car for the rest of the trip since you can’t turn off your alarm.” I was also amused at docking when the foot passengers were firmly instructed, “Unless you get off NOW, you will then be waiting for 160 cars to leave this boat!”

Later on from Friday Harbor, we watched our ferry come in with another load.

On their whale watching tour the day before we arrived, Older Daughter and family saw orcas and porpoises. The boys were thrilled!

Have I ever mentioned that blue is my favorite color? 🙂

This is the view from OD’s campsite of the lodge where I stayed. I’m the far left top room. It was quite a luxurious room with a comfortable pillow top bed and large deck. It also had internet and electricity, unlike the glamping tents where the daughters were. However, I only went back here to sleep, so it was kind of a waste of money.

This photo doesn’t do the place justice.

As expensively rustic as the lodge was, I never saw another soul there. It was beyond quiet, almost creepy.

I sent this morning photo to John to let him know that I’d finally figured out the Keurig coffee maker. You have to do everything in the correct order, or you get NOTHING. The resort had a breakfast mess tent for everyone where we had excellent food choices, and then we would head for the general store for a decent espresso.

I can’t possibly list all the outdoor activities for families and kids at this place: water stuff like rowboats, pedal boats, water trikes, as well as volleyball, swimming, soccer, full size chess and checkers, a putting green, fishing, etc. Or simply sitting around a fire with a package of graham crackers, some chocolate bars and a bag of marshmallows.

We had to try the local brewery. The food was decent and the Mexican dark lager I ordered was a win.

However, the Salty Fox coffee shop can’t spell my name. It’s not the first time I’ve been Magret–which is better than Morgrat, or that one time that I was Barbara. Hmmm.

The highlights mostly involved spending time with my grandsons and daughters. We had some hilarious conversations around the campfire.

I still didn’t achieve that four grandson photo I’ve been craving. Anders was off doing his own thing; he’s very three!

Isn’t this touching? It’s the three oldest grandsons’ special stuffies: Anders’ brown rabbit, Sharky’s yellowish Roary and Obro’s white Roary. I was never into stuffed animals myself; I had a precious (and bedraggled) blankie.

In home news, my deck is finished: a few boards repaired, cleaned off and re-stained. It still looks decent for a thirty-year-old deck. Now I have to figure out how to put the table back up there. I think I’ll wait for John.

I saw this sunrise a few nights ago and drove around my neighborhood to try to capture its beauty. When I was young, this is what I thought heaven looked like.

I came home from the San Juans to this explosion of flowers. There is already one dead one, but more will bloom.

Perhaps that can give me some hope for the tense situation I described at the beginning of this post. But sometimes, too many bridges have been burned.

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13 responses to “Stories of the San Juans”

  1. Pipe Tobacco Avatar
    Pipe Tobacco

    Oh no. I am sorry there were troubles.

    Your deck to my eyes looks like a newly installed deck. 30 years in our parts even with care, would never look that good.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      Yes, many troubles to go along with the joys. My late husband did quality work! He would be happy that I haven’t put a different deck on; my next one won’t be wood which would upset him.

  2. raincharm Avatar
    raincharm

    The trip pictures are great. I especially would have liked to hear the grandsons conversations. How they think and sometimes how they use words can be insightful and entertaining. I am sorry it was not all positive and hope those points can be smoothed.

    1. Margaret Avatar

      The boys said some funny and quirky things; I wish I had written them down. The frogs were very loud and strange sounding, and they made lots of creative remarks about that. I doubt that the situation can be smoothed over but I have no control over that. 🙁

      1. sillygirl Avatar
        sillygirl

        “but I have no control over that” – then it is not your problem. It IS unnerving to witness it however.

  3. Michael Avatar

    I always enjoy reading your posts. Your photos are great and your blog entry took me to a place that I’ve never been and have always wanted to visit. I am sorry about the difficulty you encountered. Blue is my favorite color too.

  4. AC Avatar

    Too bad there was such a stain on such a trip. You’ve got my mind reeling with a possible explanation. I have come up with something or someone in my little head.

  5. Maureen Avatar
    Maureen

    I admire your ability to detach from difficulties you cannot control, though I’m sure they cause a lot of sadness and dismay. The pictures show the islands to be so beautiful and full of nature. I would have chosen the lodge too, though I’m puzzled by its emptiness at this time of year. It looks like an ideal vacation locale.

  6. Suzanne Avatar

    The ferry ride and the resort look wonderful, and oh, Margaret (Magret??? lol), those pictures of you and the grandkids are GORGEOUS.

    I am so sorry there was tension and disgruntlement on the trip. That’s not fun for anyone. It seems that traveling with someone is a really good way to figure out if you are compatible — traveling brings out all sorts of personality quirks and characteristics that you might not otherwise experience. Hoping that whatever the outcome is, it arrives swiftly and achieves peace.

  7. Siobhan Avatar
    Siobhan

    I laughed out loud when you said your name once was transcribed to Barbara – how did that happen !!!
    Vague blogging is completely understandable
    The boys look happy and happy and seeing Orcas in the wild would be a dream of mine
    Your decking looks fab too
    Siobhan x

  8. Doug M Avatar
    Doug M

    Margaret I can hardly keep up with all your adventures but your photos here were warm, beautiful, amazing! Of course you’ve piqued my interest with the “vague blogging” as you’re usually so upfront but I will just assume it’s some unpleasant family drama. The important thing is, it looks and sounds like you had a great time. :^)

  9. Ed Avatar

    My family has always dealt with our disagreements quickly and then forgave just as quickly. My wife’s side of my family must be a bit like yours. Things tend to fester for long periods of time and erupt at the worst times to deal with such things. I’ve always struggled with dealing with things that way as I’m sure they are when I am so quick to forgive and move on.

  10. Betty Renfroe Avatar
    Betty Renfroe

    Because you are the only parent living, you feel a giant responsibility to hold the two limbs of your family connected. It’s so much easier with two parents grasping the limbs. Slowly after my husband passed there are less events with both my daughters. They are not divided but have their own families and interests. I try to enjoy both. They will have to build their connection. I think you should just let go of this being YOUR responsibility. Enjoy each and don’t expect it to be “all together”.

    The trip seems to have ended up with many positive moments for the young ones to remember. Focus on that. You can’t fix everything!

    It’s so hot and humid in the south that I’m miserable. I think as I look at the forecast to see when it’ll only be 89, am I wishing my life away?

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